In life, the fact that people have choices to choose is undeniable. Life itself is part of choices that has been made.
When we like certain things and choose to decide on certain decision, nobody seems to be able to force us to do otherwise.
But, one thing that everybody does, is to be ACCEPTED.
When we moved to a new housing area, we would talk to our neighbors and get to know them to be accepted. We do go to public places or nearby parks to ensure that we are familiar to the area. This is also part of an acceptance part.
When we start a new job in a new office and environment, the biggest challenge in ourselves is to work hard and be accepted. In our work and as a person part of the team in the company.
Another fact is that, we can’t force anyone to like us. And at the same time, we can’t deny of being liked and disliked. It is the choice of the people around us.
Being disliked is not our choice, but we can choose to be accepted. Being good as what we are and being great in what we do, is merely what makes people being accepted.
To be friend with others and being nice to those who are not to them, are part of the good things for people who are accepted, though disliked.
Being DISLIKED, but ACCEPTED for being good as what we are, is normal.
“Understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery.” – JK Rowling.